What the heck is Love? Is it an illusion? A psychological occurance in our brains? Is it those liddo butterflies in our tummies when we see that person?Who knows...I'm no expert. Either way I'd like to share my input and opinion, based on past & present personal experiences. I could be wrong but here goes...
The first person I've ever loved would be... my momma! <3 & to this very day, I still do. It's the best type of love I'll ever feel for another human being; I'm sure of it. For one, I owe her my life. That wasn't enough. She didn't stop there.. She has been there to protect, help, & love me since day one & continues to do so. She dosent love me because Im smart, or pretty, or because i have a great personality. :) (Which by the way all happens to be true) :D She never had to meet me & get to know me first to "fall in love" with me. She has no reason to love me. But she does anyway, and asks for nothing in return. She just pours love into me, but afterward dosent extend her hand towards me waiting for something in return.
That's rare. Ive noticed that people will only do or feel certain things for another but all for thier own personal benefit. If theres no benefit, gain, or advantage people wont sacrifice anything or love another unconditionally & loyaly. But parents gain nothing, on the contrary they sacrifice all they have at times all for the good of thier children. Why? Because they love them? & why do they love thier children? They just do. :) & i think its the most beautiful type of love that can exist.
Your parents wont cheat on you, they wont turn thier back on you or break your heart. They are faithful, always there for you, & mend your heart after it's been broken. Parents make mistakes but they're human. It's in thier nature to be imperfect.
For Teens & Young Adults. For the record I'm guilty of all the following. As we grow older we lose sight of our parents love. But it's there, its hidden in a little box. We begin to distort and mix up everything we see & hear. As teenagers we begin to resent our parents. We feel they are unfair because they wont let us do all the things we want to do. We begin to hate them because they wont let us go out, or they wont let us date, or wear make-up. In our perspective we see our parents as these evil beings who suck the life and fun out of everything. We feel that they just dont want to let us grow up, or have any freedom. But our parents only concern is to protect us. They know that we are prone to do stupid things at that age. Believe it or not, they were young once. They dont want us to do drugs or have sex or throw eggs at cars passing by. When we were kids and got a scrape on our knee we ran to our mothers for a band-aid & a kiss on our boo boo. But when we grow older we refuse theyre advice & help. But we shouldnt! I shouldnt! & i dont anymore (most of the time). Its a well known fact. Ive questioned it, ran numerous test, and gathered just enough data to conclude that Mom & Dad are A L W A Y S right!!!
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